Is she really into you?

Here are some signs that she IS flirting with you:

If 2012 is the year you're turning things around and are going to finally, really, play to win with the ladies, you've got to sharpen your skills.

When you're with a woman, here are some signs that she's flirting that you may have not known before:

Eye Contact Patterns -- In general, eye contact is a winning sign, but there's a specific kind that girls use to show that they're flirting with you. The combination of meeting your gaze, and then looking away is her way of screaming, "I want you."

Playing With Her Hair -- Most fidgeting, whether it's playing with her hair, adjusting her clothing or re-applying her lipstick, is a sign that she's nervous and that you're having an impact on her.

Enthusiasm -- If she's eagerly asking a ton of questions about even the most boring stuff you're talking about, it means she's looking for a reason to be around you.

Contact -- If she physically touches you, it's actually a warning sign. It says, "Why haven't you touched me yet? I've been flirting with you."